From time to
time in a moment of frustration or tiredness, we might ask ourselves this
question: ‘what is it all for?’ or ‘what is life all about?’
It is good for us to sit back once in a while
to ask ourselves the ‘why’ of what we do, and not remain so focussed on ‘what’
we do. People may often ask us ‘what do you do?’ as a conversation opener, but
thankfully never ask us why we do it although from time to time people might
comment ‘I could never do that’. We must also be careful that our role in work
does not define us as persons, and that we are so caught up in our work that we
forget life’s real purpose – to get to heaven.
It is one of the few parables about a man on his own and
wanting to enjoy life and property and riches without reference to anyone else.
There was no relationship, of family, no children, no relations, no concern for
sharing with those in need, it was accumulation for its own sake, and therefore
greed. He had a talent for accumulating wealth but he was spiritually poor. He tried
to have a paradise without God. There was no heavenly wisdom in his actions.
For some people
the answer to the question of the meaning of life is: ‘Eat drink and be merry,
for tomorrow we die'. ‘It’s all about having and about enjoying yourself, because
time is short and you won’t be around forever so make the best of it.’ But living
a life without consequences, to believe that you can have who and whatever you
want is however to live a life of hedonism which is ultimately shallow and fails
to satisfy for very long. We see in some celebrities vain attempts at
immortality, careerism, profit, prestige, fame, notoriety, power, of
appearances, of glamour (through cosmetic surgery), of being talked about in
the tabloids. And yet their autobiographies are full of sadness and attempts at
escapism through abuse of food, drink, drugs, scandal and infidelity.How often, like the rich man, have we heard of heart breaking stories of money invested and gone, or projects completed and a person does in the stress of the effort? I remember there was a publican who spent over £200,000 (punts) in extending his pub, and he died soon afterwards, how the best laid plans in retirement fall through, how people sadly do not see their worldly dreams fulfilled, and die before enjoying retirement.
Such anecdotes make us stop and think about the shortness of
our own lives and to question our priorities in life as well as who will follow
after us.
The expression ‘you can’t take it with you’ is well captured
in the story of the Irish-born self-made millionaire in America who stipulated that
he buried in the land of his birth. On the crate carrying him home were stamped
the words: ‘of no commercial value’. The other expression there is no trailer after
a hearse reminds us of the stark reality of the saying ‘you can’t take it with
you’. So there is the question of creativity certainly but also of stewardship,
of the relative value of everything and the value to our relatives!
Desires, even disordered ones, all point to a sense of incompleteness,
of longing for completion, for fulfilment, for satisfaction, point to our restlessness,
of never seeming to have enough, of not being satisfied.
May we learn from the fictional character in the Gospel today
to re-evaluate our philosophy of life, what drives us, and what do we ultimately
desire.
May the parable invite us to look at our possessions as to
whether they possess us, to ask ourselves if we can say in all honesty: ‘I am happy
with what I have’ and that I can give to others readily.
May we ask ourselves, like in the first reading: ‘what is it
all for?’ and know that there is a positive answer that involves us but that
life is not all about us!
The way to heaven is summed up in the Beatitudes: the way of peace,
purity, poverty (detachment), persecution, mournfulness, meekness, mercy, and
hunger for what is right.
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